μ˜μ–΄λ‘œ πŸ’¬ μ†Œμ™Έκ°μ΄ λ“€λ‹€ / μ±…μž„κ°μ„ λŠλΌλ‹€ / 배신감이 λ“€λ‹€ πŸ’‘ μžμ—°μŠ€λŸ¬μš΄ μ˜μ–΄ λ¬Έλ§₯ μ†μ—μ„œ λ‹€μ–‘ν•œ ν‘œν˜„ 배우기

졜근 κ²Œμ‹œλ¬Ό κ²Œμ‹œνŒ μŠ€ν„°λ””κ²Œμ‹œνŒ μ˜μ–΄λ‘œ πŸ’¬ μ†Œμ™Έκ°μ΄ λ“€λ‹€ / μ±…μž„κ°μ„ λŠλΌλ‹€ / 배신감이 λ“€λ‹€ πŸ’‘ μžμ—°μŠ€λŸ¬μš΄ μ˜μ–΄ λ¬Έλ§₯ μ†μ—μ„œ λ‹€μ–‘ν•œ ν‘œν˜„ 배우기



  • I finally feel like I’m with the right kind of people for me. At my last job, I didn’t have any problems, but I always felt a little left out for some reason and I never really understood why. But, I think I do now. Now, I definitely feel like I’m where I belong.
    μ €λŠ” μ΄μ œμ„œμ•Ό μ €λž‘ λ§žλŠ” μ‚¬λžŒλ“€κ³Ό ν•¨κ»˜ν•˜κ³  μžˆλŠ” 것 κ°™μ•„μš”. μ§€λ‚œ 직μž₯μ—μ„œλŠ” λ¬Έμ œλŠ” μ—†μ—ˆμ§€λ§Œ 무슨 μ΄μœ μ—μ„œμΈμ§€ 늘 μ†Œμ™Έκ°μ΄ μ‘°κΈˆμ”© λ“€μ—ˆλŠ”λ° κ·Έ 이유λ₯Ό μ•Œ 수 μ—†μ—ˆμ§€λ§Œ μ§€κΈˆμ€ μ•Œ 것 κ°™μ•„μš”. μ§€κΈˆμ€ ν™•μ‹€νžˆ μ œκ°€ μžˆμ–΄μ•Ό ν•  곳에 μžˆλŠ” 것 κ°™μ•„μš”.

    β€’ the right kind of people for me : λ‚˜ν•œν…Œ(λ‚˜μ™€) λ§žλŠ” μ‚¬λžŒλ“€
    β€’ for some reason : 무슨 μ΄μœ μ—μ„œμΈμ§€
    β€’ I’m where I belong : λ‚˜λŠ” λ‚΄κ°€ μžˆμ–΄μ•Ό ν•  곳에 μžˆλ‹€

    You know, everyone tells me that it wasn’t my fault and there was nothing I could’ve done. And, I think I know that. But, every time I think about it, I can’t help feeling just a little bit responsible for what happened. There’s this voice in my head that keeps saying, “if I had just acted a little sooner…”. My psychologist keeps reminding me that it’s a classic case of Survivor’s Guilt.
    λ‹€λ“€ 제 탓이 μ•„λ‹ˆκ³  μ œκ°€ μ–΄λ–»κ²Œ ν•  수 μ—†μ—ˆμ„ 거라고 말을 ν•΄μš”. 저도 κ·Έλ ‡κ²Œ 그런 것 κ°™κΈ΄ ν•œλ° κ·Έ 일에 λŒ€ν•΄μ„œ 생각할 λ•Œλ§ˆλ‹€ κ·Έ 일에 λŒ€ν•œ μ±…μž„κ°μ΄ 저도 λͺ¨λ₯΄κ²Œ μ‘°κΈˆμ”© λ“€μ–΄μš”. “λ‚΄κ°€ 쑰금만 λΉ λ₯΄κ²Œ 행동을 μ·¨ν–ˆμ–΄λ„..” ν•˜λŠ” 생각이 머리속에 자꾸 λ§΄λŒμ•„μš”. 제 μ •μ‹ κ³Όμ˜μ‚¬λŠ” μƒμ‘΄μž μ£„μ±…κ°μ˜ μ „ν˜•μ μΈ μΌ€μ΄μŠ€λΌλŠ” 것을 μ €ν•œν…Œ λ°˜λ³΅ν•΄μ„œ μƒκΈ°μ‹œμΌœμ£Όκ³  μžˆμ–΄μš”.

    β€’ there was nothing i could’ve done : λ‚΄κ°€ ν•  수 μžˆμ—ˆλ˜ 것은 μ—†μ—ˆλ‹€
    β€’ can’t help + ing : λ‚˜λ„ λͺ¨λ₯΄κ²Œ, μ–΄μ©” 수 없이 (ν†΅μ œκ°€ μ•ˆλ¨) ~을 ν•˜κ²Œ λ˜λ‹€
    β€’ a classic case of [ ν˜„μƒμ΄λ‚˜ 증상 ] : [ ν˜„μƒμ΄λ‚˜ 증상 ]의 μ „ν˜•μ μΈ μΌ€μ΄μŠ€

    People are responding to this particular case much more emotionally than usual and that’s probably because they had so much trust and love for that person for so long. I’m sure that he was thought of like a friend or family by many people. So, I’m not at all surprised that people felt especially betrayed when they heard about what he did and I feel more or less the same way. But, I’m one of those people who believe that people make mistakes. Sometimes, we do stupid things.
    μ‚¬λžŒλ“€μ€ ν‰μ†Œλ³΄λ‹€ 이번 사건에 특히 κ°μ •μ μœΌλ‘œ λ°˜μ‘μ„ ν•˜κ³  μžˆλŠ”λ° 그것은 μ•„λ§ˆ μ˜€λž«λ™μ•ˆ κ·Έ μ‚¬λžŒμ— λŒ€ν•œ 믿음과 애정을 κ°€μ Έμ™”κΈ° λ•Œλ¬ΈμΌ κ±°μ˜ˆμš”. λΆ„λͺ…νžˆ κ·ΈλŠ” λ§Žμ€ μ‚¬λžŒλ“€μ—κ²Œ μΉœκ΅¬λ‚˜ κ°€μ‘±μ²˜λŸΌ λŠκ»΄μ‘Œμ„ κ±°μ˜ˆμš”. κ·Έλž˜μ„œ κ·Έκ°€ 저지λ₯Έ 행동에 λŒ€ν•΄μ„œ μ•Œκ³  λ‚˜μ„œ μ‚¬λžŒλ“€μ΄ 특히 큰 배신감을 λŠκΌˆλ‹€λŠ” 게 사싀 μ „ν˜€ λ†€λΌμš΄ 일은 μ•„λ‹ˆμ—μš”. 저도 λΉ„μŠ·ν•œ 마음이긴 ν•˜μ§€λ§Œ μ €λŠ” λˆ„κ΅¬λ‚˜ μ‹€μˆ˜λ₯Ό ν•œλ‹€κ³  λ―ΏλŠ” νŽΈμ΄μ—μš”. λˆ„κ΅¬λ‚˜ λ©μ²­ν•œ 행동을 ν•  λ•Œκ°€ 있기 마련이죠.

    β€’ respond to : 무엇에 λ°˜μ‘ν•˜λ‹€
    β€’ A is thought of as(like) B : AλŠ” B둜(처럼) 여겨진닀
    β€’ I’m not at all surprised that .. : that μ΄ν•˜μ˜ λ‚΄μš©μ΄ μ „ν˜€ λ†€λžμ§€ μ•Šλ‹€
    β€’ more or less : 거의

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